Yesterday we received the call from the Stanford Tumor Board. The doctor confirmed what we expected, but had hoped not to hear. Diane’s tumor is inoperable and their “guess” is she has six months to live.
They proposed two options (1) chemo protocols which have no record of success with this particular cancer and may marginally extend Diane’s days and (2) a palliative care program supported by a local hospice to keep her “comfortable.”
Diane quickly responded, “no more chemo.” We discussed this previously. This chemo would make her sick, lose her hair and due to risk of infection, limit time with kids and grandkids. It was an easy decision.
Thursday we met with a woman who has successfully treated cancer with a dietary, herbal and natural supplement protocol. Diane liked her and her advice and we are currently implementing her program. Best case, it will shrink the tumor and deliver Diane from the precipice. Worst case, her immune system will be strengthened and she’ll enjoy the Last Act with family, friends and a cheering cloud of witnesses.
Friends and family in Idaho, wanted to visit Diane in Santa Cruz, but Heather, raised funds to fly us there for a week next Thursday. Diane is looking forward toward seeing our Wilson clan and many dear friends who have been faithfully ministering to her from afar. It was driving back from Idaho last October when we first realized “something” was wrong.
“Thankfulness in all things” was something we stressed with the children when they were young. At bedtime, before prayer, they always had to say what they were thankful for (not just “Jesus”, but the great/small providences of their day). It was great practice which became “habit” in our children’s lives. Our gratitude towards God for the gift we’ve had in Diane overflows as we reflect on her past ministry to us and her gracious testimony in embracing God’s will today.
We want to thank all who have written words of encouragement and shared testimonies of how Diane blessed many of you who our children have not met or have even heard about in family lore. Your notes, cards and postings are the most effective prescriptions filled by the Great Physician.
We’ll keep you posted.
Blessings,
Bill